XXX Chats

dating expectations too high

Cupid dating match personal

“I sing Bob Dylan in the shower and Robyn in the car” or “I lived in a houseboat for three months…until it sank. I just moved to dry land.)” or even a quote from your favorite TV show (Tom Haverford from Parks and Recreation is a personal favorite: “When life gives you lemons, you sell some of your grandma’s jewelry and go clubbing”) says something about you and helps spark conversation. Bad dates are good stories (that happen to help you learn something about yourself), and remember: it only takes one good date…

Decide which 1 or 2 resonate most with you, and make it your own. This second Okcupid profile question is best pumped up for the average joe's, and downplayed for you high achievers.

In choosing an angle, focus on your best qualities. Consider the highlights of your life so far; Did you found a startup? Keep it short n’ sweet, with no more than a few sentences, or a paragraph at the most.

It shouldn't be what you're literally thinking about.

It doesn't need to be deep, or ironically trite, but it is an opportunity to keep things cohesive with your overall angle.

Or you can go "quirky and ironic" angle and list items that you COULD live without, but wouldn't want to.

Like, This profile question is a free-for-all opportunity to make a clever joke, or provide a glimpse into your overall mindset.

You’ve got your sweatpants on, ordered enough Thai for two but only for one, and there’s a bottle of open booze somewhere in the room — you must be single on Valentine’s Day. And I’m probably doing the exact same thing, with one big difference: instead of crying my way through…er, I mean dry-eyed watching a cheesy romcom, I’ve got my computer open, and I’m working overtime.

Such is the life of an online dating profile ghostwriter.

Don’t fall in love with someone based on their profile.

The profile questions on Okcupid can be the trickiest to answer of all the dating sites. I live, work, and rock out to 80's classics any place I choose.

Comments Cupid dating match personal